“A woman is the most annoying creature that came in the diary of God”. PS
It seems that the actions of women contradict with their words. Men love women, yet we can’t live with or without them. Their inclusion in creation has always been with a big question that men ask God, WHY? Their annoyance starts early in life when you have a sister, worse when you have sisters. Upon all the research carried out by men to understand women, it seems there is no way we are breaking through now or sooner. The task looks impossible if you ask me. We can never understand women. Is their inclusion in creation a curse or a blessing? The sensitive ones think it’s a curse since the fall of man through EVE, but upon many debates carried out, greater percentage of their existence is believed to be a blessing.
I met a married friend of mine at Lapaz around 1am one Saturday, he looked frail, worried, and disoriented. He was thinner than the last time I saw him. He looked OK but a bit sick. His appearance got me worried. He seemed lost and searching. I approached him and asked what he was doing out in the middle of the night. His first answer was his wife was pregnant. He answered with a deep breath and a sigh. Before I could connect his answer to my question, he continued, “she says she wants kelewele at this time of the night”. I understood his body state but I couldn’t stop laughing. I helped him search for a kelewele joint, and just when we had finished buying, his wife called him to tell him that she didn’t not want the kelewele anymore but goat -soup. Goat soup in the middle of the night? where on earth were we going to get that? Then I heard my friend explode on the phone, “You want your m#$%!!!” He turned to me when he was done with the little fight on the cell phone, placed his hand on my shoulder and looked straight into my eyes, and exclaimed “my friend, don’t ever marry!”.
Scene 1:
Man: Hi honey,
Woman: Hi. (man glued to Tv. After 5 mins) won’t you ask me how my day was? (turning off the tv)
Man: Yes love, how was your day?
Woman: I had a tough day, at school today . (expression of anger and tiredness) and on the way, this stupid taxi driver tried to get on my nerves.
Man: Aww sorry baby, why what did the driver do?
Woman: I don’t know why they permit silly drivers to drive on the streets, “Abofusem”. His wretched car too and he wants to display his ignorance for the whole world to see.
Man: Erh, honey, what did he do exactly?
Woman: will you shut up and let me talk?! you see the problem, you don’t listen when I talk! that is the problem with you all men. You all are the same.
Man: you see why I don’t ask how your day was? We always end up fighting.
Woman: Why can’t you just let us be sad and just listen to our cries? must it always be that difficult?
Man: *#*$&((@*&$**(@*&$&**((!)@(*$*(@($*(
Scene 2:
Woman: Hun, I think we overspend, we should try and minimize our budget. We don’t need an expensive wedding, let’s do court and all will be fine. I don’t like the public attention wedding thing.
Man: Woman, you are the wisest woman on earth. I so Love your simplicity.
(After 2 weeks): Woman: Hi Hun, I saw this gown and it’s so nice, you see it looks like the one Beyonce used for her dinner party, I want to use that one for our wedding.
Man: OK, But I thought you liked ordinance marriage, just go and sign, that is all.
Woman: Yea but all I am asking for is a gown. Is that difficult for you to get?
Man: no Hun
(After a week): Hun I saw this site and the wedding invitation is very nice and their price is cool.
Man: Hold on woman, I thought we agreed on the court signing only?!
Woman: Yeah but the invitation cards are so nice, and your family has lots of people so we should think of invitation cards, you know. and the cake I talked to my friend about it and she said she will give us a cool price. And one more thing I want the reception at Golden Tulip Hotel.
Man: What!@#$*$*%&(#(#**$&%(($*
Scene 3:
Woman: I have tried to keep up with your friends but you seem not to know any of my friends. You can remember all footballers names in the world and you can’t even remember the name of even one of my friends.
Man: Is that a problem?
Woman: Yes, when my friends come to the house you just leave us and all you say is Hi and you appear when they have left. Meanwhile I follow you to all your activities with your friends, even your old school meetings.
(After 2 weeks): Woman: Why does Jennifer, my best friend, keep whatsapping you almost everyday?
Man: Ama your best friend is really a wonderful person and I like her company.
Woman: You what!? eei God, come help me ooo. I introduced my friend to you and you are trying to get her into bed right?
Man: what are you talking about woman? you were the one who complained about me ignoring your friends.
Woman: Yeah but I did not tell you to be texting each other, and calling, I wanted them to be your friends not your texting mate. Please stay away from my friends.
Man: #(**$^@^(^#^(@#&$^%*
When women say “nothing” is wrong, it means everything is so completely wrong that men don’t even have enough hours in this lifetime to adequately express how wrong everything is. You make the bed, you are a good man, but if you make the bed without the proper bed sheets and pillows, you have failed as a man. You go out to buy her stuffs every day, you are an ordinary man. If you go out to buy her something in a rain for just a day, you are a hero. Don’t watch the tv when she is complaining, don’t sleep through her talks. If you do that, you are dead. Never mention your ex girlfriend’s name accidentally, intentionally or any other “lly”. You might lose the love of your life.
Women are precious, their existence in the world make the world a beautiful place to be in. You don’t have to understand them, just love them and they will understand you.
(watch the video from the guy moment
(c) Derrick Ofori Donkor – 15st March 2014
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